WHAT HAPPENS IN VEGAS ...
by Race dePriest
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Hey, Race dePriest here. If youve read some of my stuff before, glad to have you here :) And if youre just hearing my name for the first time, well also glad to have you here :)
Either way, what Im going to share with you in this report is going to blow you away. Its the result of the last five years of my life, countless hours of trial and error, successes and heartaches...
...and literally thousands of women. Now before you starting making comparisons to Russell Brand or Wilt Chamberlain, the answer is no, I havent slept with thousands of women. But when it comes to choosing hot girls to spend time with, well, Ive got it down to a bulletproof system. Theres not been one evening in the last two years when Ive been lonely or without female companionship when I want it. And this all happened without going out night after night and opening set after set. There s no need for mastery of some complicated pickup methodology, and I havent had to work to get calibrated. Theres no inner game work and I havent had to develop the most awesome lifestyle ever. Of course, this flies in the face of just about everything I knew about what it took to meet women.
If youd told me that I could have this many women in my life - to date casually or to be in a relationship with - without me having to put in the effort and get better, Id have told you that you dont know anything about what it takes to be good with women.
But one random housemate in Las Vegas would change ALL of that, and pull the curtain back on a method for meeting women that put more women in my bed in a month than in the previous two years combined. And the funny thing is, it only got better from there...
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HOW A GUY WHO PLAYED CHICK ROCK COVER SONGS
CHANGED MY LIFE
Like a lot of guys (and maybe like you) I was taught to think that traditional pickup - in a bar or on the street - was the best way to meet lots of new women. I didnt love doing it, but I bought in to the notion that it was the right way to hone my skills. And secretly, I wanted to prove myself to my buddies... I wanted them to know that I was a cool guy who could get any girl attracted to him. At 25 years old, I had just spent a year traveling around the world, and was ready to get this woman thing handled. So, in what I was sure was a stroke of genius, I moved to Vegas - ground zero for hot girls looking to party. I moved in with my friend Kelly, an aspiring rockstar, and I set to work on my game. Things were ok, but not great. I was meeting girls, but I could never get the hottest ones into me. No matter how hard I tried, it seemed like there was some sort of hidden inner circle that they all belonged to, and I was firmly on the outside. I did cold approach after cold approach, and despite the monumental effort, life in Vegas wasnt exactly working out as Id planned it. Kelly, on the other hand... within a few weeks of settling in, he was pulling bonafide 9s and 10s. I chalked it up to the fact that he was in a band, but it took five shows for me to realize that there were always twenty to thirty new hot women in the audience at every show. And I love Kelly, but his Goo Goo Dolls and Third Eye Blind covers just didnt seem good enough to draw that many new girls week after week. Over spaghetti and marinara sauce one evening, I confided to Kelly that I was, well... jealous of all the girls he was pulling. I admitted my frustration, and, completely putting my ego aside, admitted that I wanted what he had. Did I have to learn how to play the guitar?
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He flashed one of his trademark million-watt smiles, and as a chuckle grew in him, he grabbed his laptop from the countertop. What I saw next absolutely blew me away.
THE BIRTH OF A LEGEND
Its funny when people call you a legend. I ve heard it more than once from friends and clients, but only a few people know how humble the beginnings were. Back when Kelly logged into MySpace and showed me his inbox on that fateful April evening, everything clicked, so to speak... ...the hours he spent online, the fact that he seemed to know a little bit about every girl at his show, the fact that the girls werent just showing up to hear his rendition of SemiCharmed Life... Kellys MySpace inbox was absolutely overflowing with messages from hot girls. Remember her? he asked me as he opened a message from a girl whod shacked up with him two days prior. And her? And this one? Oh, and dude THIS one was absolutely crazy. It just went on and on... hundreds of women who hed met on MySpace, invited to his shows, and hand-picked to return home for a private studio session. At first I didnt want to believe it. This was uncomfortably close to online dating, which had always struck me as lame. Something that guys who couldnt cold approach had to resort to. I voiced my concern to Kelly. His response? But Race, all those hotties who youre striking out with at the bar... theyre here on MySpace. And when I send them a message and theyre alone in the bedroom with their defenses down... dude, theyre the sweetest girls ever and theyre DYING to talk to a cool guy. He had a point. Now, Id NEVER considered using MySpace to meet women before... setting up a profile, searching for the women, sending out all those messages, it seemed like a lot of big barriers to overcome.
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Its silly looking back, because if I think about all the things I had to do to meet women in person - taking a shower, getting myself together, driving to the bar, paying for a few drinks, steeling myself for that first cold approach... its actually a lot more effort than sending out a few messages on [Link], Okcupid or Facebook. But of course, it was something that was familiar to me, so it didnt seem like a lot of work. Setting up a good profile and thinking of a clever opening message - those were unfamiliar and seemed kind of geeky. As fate would have it, Kelly had worked a lot of this stuff out already. It didnt take more than twenty minutes to set me up with a good profile - about as much time as it takes ready to get to go out every night. As for the opening messages, it turns out that he wasnt initiating conversations by just asking girls out to his shows. Attractive girls get hit up all the time by promoters and musicians, so he would start out with a little joke, make a personal connection, and then invite them out. He let me copy and paste some of his email openers, and within an hour of learning of his secrets, I had mailed ten new women. The next morning, I had nine replies in my inbox. I was onboard. In the thirty days that followed, I had more women come over than Id hooked up with in the past year. Following Kellys simple principles, and improving on them with a little bit of my own ingenuity, I was seeing two to three new girls a week. It soon became a competition between Kelly and I. Who could come up with an opener that would have the highest response rate? Who could get the hotter girls to come over? Could he do it without inviting the girls to one of his shows?
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Those months were some of the most fun times in my life, and our house was like Las Vegass answer to the Playboy Mansion. We began to work facebook too, and it wasnt long before we started getting other guys involved - there were just too many women, and it was just too easy. We soon started an anonymous blog under the pen names Hatch and Songbird, and word began to spread.
IM KIND OF A BIG DEAL
Ok, maybe Im not as big a deal as Ron Burgundy. But my stuff has helped thousands of men get their first date, lose their virginity, even meet women who theyd marry. You see, I got so good at meeting women on social networking sites that Kelly and I put pen to paper and popped out a 200-page tome on the subject matter. We launched Window Shopping For Women in 2007, and its still the de-facto bible on using facebook and MySpace to meet women. Youll find glowing reviews if you Google it. One of my online openers (I call it the ex-girlfriend opener) became so popular that dating columnists started writing about it. Needless to say, Ive got hundreds of other tested openers, but its a testament to the popularity of my old system.
The discouraging part is that Im not exactly a lawyer, and when I signed a contract with my publisher for that book, I didnt realize how many of my rights I was giving away. To this day, Ive not made a single penny from the sale of that book. Thousands of sales, countless lives changes, hundreds of testimonials... and Im not one cent richer.
Its kind of sad, actually. My contract said that I would get paid after expenses, and while my publishers not a bad guy, he managed to find a lot of expenses. But every cloud has a silver lining, and in the years since writing Window Shopping, two things have happened: Ive been running a private forum, with over 4500 posts of tested material from Ive gotten even better at meeting women online :)
guys whove been using the Window Shopping system
You see, there are two profound differences between meeting women online, and meeting them in real life.
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First, everything is slowed wayyyyy down, so you have the time to analyze it, understand it, and repeat it much more quickly than if you were trying to assimilate it all in face-to-face interactions. Second, its incredibly efficient. With tens of thousands of women online, you can message scores of them at once, try lots of different techniques, and see what works and what doesnt in a way that you just couldnt do in person. As I continued to work towards system 2.0, I committed to trying anything and everything to see what would work. There was nothing off limits, because I was determined to make this even better on the second go around. And what I found was nothing short of groundbreaking.
FLIPPING SWITCHES AND PUSHING BUTTONS
Its commonly held wisdom that there are core attraction triggers that a man should flip in order to be with a woman. Some of these, such as leader of men and protector of loved ones have their roots in evolutionary biology, and signal mating value. This theory, held to be truth in some circles, doesnt account for one teeny tiny little bitty thing: a womans emotions. Simply put, different women have different preferences, interests, and personalities. And while there are some universally attractive traits like leader of men and protector of loved ones, those traits alone simply cannot give women what they really want: emotional fulfillment. Any good relationship youve had - whether a 30 minute interaction at the bar, or a 3 year love story - has had at its core a compelling emotional experience. Perhaps it lifted your woman out of the boredom of her life, and provided some fun times, or even passion. Perhaps it was a safe place for a woman - somewhere she could trust and call home. Perhaps it was a neverending source of intrigue and mystery, delighting her with new revelations on every new date. We humans are so driven by our emotions that we do things like race cars, jump out of airplanes, read romance novels, drink champagne and dance on tabletops, just to feel like we are alive. From an evolutionary perspective, these things are useless and, in some cases, potentially dangerous. But we do them for the thrill of it.
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In fact, were such emotion-seekers that, in most cases, those universally attractive traits dont really matter. Because theres Brad Pitt, then theres everyone else.
In other words, if youre not in the top echelon of movie stars, pro athletes, Wall Street bankers, or Silicon Valley entrepreneurs, then youre about the same to her as as any other guy. Sure, you can do your part to dress better, get a decent job, and do some cool things in your spare time. Those things dont hurt. But what the great romantics and seducers in history have all had in common has been their ability to give women the emotional and romantic experience of a lifetime. Whether they were wealthy men, like the English poet Lord Byron, or broke as a joke, like Casanova, these men thought only of how to delight, surprise and enchant the women in their lives.
LIKE PICKUP, BUT ON STEROIDS
Viewed through this lens, the process of attracting, connecting with, and becoming intimate with a woman takes on a whole new meaning. If youve seen the movie Hitch, you probably remember the scene where Will Smith sends Eva Mendez a walkie-talkie and a scuba suit to ask her out on a date. Ask a guy whos been studying pickup about this and hed dismiss it as beta behavior. But look more closely and you understand the genius of it. Will Smiths character has piqued her curiosity, created a playful dynamic, and sparked her imagination. Was it absolutely necessary to spend all that money and get so elaborate? No... but it delivers such an incredible emotional thrill that she couldnt help but delight in it. (And if you want some real insight into the mind of a true ladies man, then consider that someone as masterful with the fair sex as Hitch would have taken great pleasure in knowing that hed delighted the object of his affection). In fact, in this one deft move, Will Smiths character pushed some critical buttons... by pressing her curiosity button, he engaged her by pressing her playfulness button, he initiated flirtation by sparking her imagination, he paved the way for her to become fascinated Now, think back to the last time you were out at a bar talking to a woman. Do you think that if you got her emotionally engaged, then got her flirting with you and feeling some [Link]
of those butterflies in her stomach, then managed to get her fascinated with you and stimulated her imagination, youd be well on your way? Id say so. Taking it two steps further, if you could push her safety button and create trust that made her want to retreat to your arms, and then you finally pressed her arousal button and cause desire that set her mind racing and her body on fire, shed be yours. And after countless of messages, thousands of interactions, and hundreds of women, I found that by consistently pressing these key five buttons, I could take a woman from zero, to my arms, in no time flat. The even crazier part? I became so good at online game - at seeing which buttons I needed to press, and when - that when I finally started going out again, I was able to pick up women without a second thought. Every single interaction had these five things happen in it.
After internalizing this system, I know that if Im out at the bar and I see a woman I want to meet, its no problem. But I dont go out with the intention of doing pickup. Because honestly, doing it online is like pickup on steroids. I can copy and paste one of my proven openers, shoot out twenty messages in ten minutes, and push all five buttons within seven to ten messages while Im eating cereal or paying my bills. By the time the date is set, shes so excited to see me that its as if I sent her walkie talkies, a wetsuit, and two front-row tickets to that thing she loves. All by delivering a predictable, controllable emotional experience. Five simple buttons, and some copy/paste stuff from the years and years of material Ive perfected. The best part? I have made so many truly amazing connections with incredible girls Id NEVER have met otherwise. I only choose to see the women who I connect with and who I actually like, and it has completely leveled the playing field. By the time I decide to meet up with a girl, I know that were going to get along, have an awesome time, and that shes really into me. Its an absolute dating utopia... and everything that most men are actually looking for when they decide to get this handled. You have more girls than you know what to do with, with very little effort. You get easy access to the girls who are next-to-impossible to approach at the bar, and whether you want casual fun, or a serious relationship, the cards are stacked heavily in your favor.
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What started as a small experiment one night in Vegas became something that has taken me around the world (and let me instantly meet up with women wherever Ive traveled), transformed the lives of countless men who read my first book, and spread widely across the Internet. End of story, right? Well, heres where things take a turn for the ironic... When Window Shopping For Women got big, I started getting messages from a lot of clients asking me about online dating sites. Match, Yahoo! Personals, Plenty of Fish, etc. And as I was working on Window Shopping 2.0 - what I now call the Click Button System - I thought it would make sense to broaden my horizons. So when I signed up for my first real online dating site - and not a social networking site like facebook or MySpace - I thought back to that fateful evening in the kitchen with Kelly, and that thought that ran through my head... isnt online dating for losers? Call me a loser if you want... Im back from the mountaintop, and Ive got big news for any man who is single.
IF IT GOT MENTIONED ON SEX AND THE CITY, ITS OK
Forget anything you ve heard about this whole online dating thing. Forget the stigma, and the idea that its embarrassing or lame.
When you know how to play the game right, when youre one of the top dogs on an online dating site, you literally get to hand-pick the hottest girls - the same girls who are intimidating when theyre out on a Friday night with a mob of friends, done up like perfect Barbie dolls, getting swarmed by drunk men who are all eager to take their shot.
And if you prefer hipsters or goth chicks or preppies, well, theyre hanging out online too. 20,000 new members join Plenty of Fish per day (and the site got a shout out on Sex and The City, so you know its finally socially acceptable to women). I just checked OKCupid - over 40,000 people are online at this moment. Attractive women are flocking to these sites in droves, and with every passing month, the sites become more and more socially acceptable. So why do I love dedicated online dating sites so much?
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1. The girls are pre-qualified. You know theyre single and looking for a good man, so its a matter of finding the quality ones and working some of the magic Ill show you. 2. Your competition is pretty weak. Most guys have boring profiles, lousy photos, and their opener goes something like whats up, you look hot, holla back. It doesnt take much to stand out, and the contrast between these guys, and a cool guy, is striking to the women receiving the messages. 3. These girls are, shall we say... sexually liberated. If thats your thing too, you should probably know that 1 in 3 women who meet a guy online have sex on their first date. Dont believe me? Just Google online dating statistics and look at the Huffington Post article (it should be one of the first ones). 4. If youre looking to settle down and find a wifey, the stats are in your favor, too. The average time from meeting to marriage is 18 months - less than half that of the 42 months it takes couples who meet in the real world to get hitched. 5. Did I mention that these women are dying to meet a cool guy? Check out my inbox from a two-day period on one of the paid sites:
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Thats ten new women in two days... who are all super-engaged, whove read about me and are interested in getting to know me better (and notice that four of them reached out and wrote to me first). How are you going to get more efficient than that? Not going out to clubs. Not with day game. Not through your social circle. Oh and by the way, if youre into making a lot of female friends so you can go out to clubs or have a nice big social circle, this is the easiest way possible to start. I know that wherever in the world I want to visit, if I can find an online dating site or social networking site, I can have a group of fun girls waiting to greet me when I get off the plane.
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I hope none of this sounds like bragging. Its just, as far as I see it and have experienced it, the truth. And you can have it too.
WHAT HAPPENED IN VEGAS...
...led to more women than I could handle, which led to a blog, which led to a book, which led to a phenomenon, which led to us this very report. As I wrote this report, I was speaking with my buddy and business associate Christian. We were both thinking... wow, this is kind of excessive. What if a guy just wants to settle down with a nice girlfriend? Well of course, thats way more than possible - its assured.
The system works so well, though, that Ive been having too much fun to settle down. Theres something so rewarding about meeting and attracting new women... and about getting to know them, bringing them into your life, and having fun times with them.
The material Ive put together is like nothing else out there. It is based on thousands and thousands of interactions, years and years of research, countless client case studies, and five simple psychological buttons that you have to push when youre getting to know her. Ive been working nonstop on the new Click Button System, and recently released it to a beta group of fifty guys. On top of everything that Id written into the system, I worked closely with these fifty guys to ensure that they were able to repeat my successes - predictably and consistently. This is going to have a PROFOUND impact on your dating life: Way more choice. The easiest way to improve your skills. Zero rejection. The confidence that comes from knowing that a LOT of women want to see you and spend time with you. And Im going to walk you through it all so theres no guesswork - youll be following proven, tested strategies... and having a ton of fun. PS see you over there, my man. - Race
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