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Whoever coined the word “networking” needs to go to jail. Ask 10 people how to do it, you’ll get ten different answers. And that’s the problem. Because networking isn’t one skill. It’s FIVE. Unless you know which one you’re practicing, you’ll always leave events feeling like you “didn’t network enough.” Here’s the breakdown: 1. The Skill of Initiating The courage to walk up, introduce yourself, and open a conversation that isn’t empty small talk. Start with something real enough to spark interest, but light enough not to overwhelm. Most people fail here because they wait for the “perfect moment.” 2. The Skill of Listening Sounds cliché, but it isn’t. Great connectors aren’t the smoothest talkers, they’re the sharpest listeners. The right questions make people open up. A direct pitch kills networking. Listening makes it come alive. 3. The Skill of Positioning The least discussed skill. Positioning isn’t bragging. It’s telling your story so it sticks. A one-liner people can carry with them and repeat when you’re not in the room. Confuse them, and you’ve lost them. 4. The Skill of Following Up The most underrated. A conversation without follow-up is just noise. Real networking begins the next day—when you show you remembered, cared, and chose to continue. 5. The Skill of Compounding Networking isn’t built in a single night. It’s the compounding of tiny touchpoints over years. That stranger in the coffee line becomes an ally when you’ve shown up enough times with small acts of value. Now here’s the thing: You can’t master all five at once. And you shouldn’t even try. At your next event, pick one. Maybe it’s just practicing your opener. Maybe it’s testing your one-liner. Maybe it's religiously sticking to your follow-up. Get one right. Build momentum. Then move on to the next Because networking isn’t a gift. It’s not “some people have it, others don’t.” It’s a learned skill. And like every other skill, it’s mastered piece by piece—not in one grand performance. So stop treating networking like a mystical ability. Start training it like the craft it actually is. Which of the five are you good at? Which one do you struggle with? #networking #communication #collaboration #mindset #work #skills #event

The best networkers aren't always the chattiest ones. They're the ones who know how to ask great questions. And then listen. I used to believe networking meant working every room like a caffeinated sales rep. I’ve had people come up to me and hand me their business card before they’d even said a word…on more than one occasion. With experience, and a little wisdom, you realise it’s the wrong approach entirely. The magic happens when you stop performing and actually start connecting with the people your talking to! Real networking for introverts: • Quality over quantity - always • Deep questions, not surface-level chat • Follow-through that adds genuine value • Your listening skills are your secret weapon Three meaningful conversations beat thirty empty handshakes. Because connections aren't about being memorable. They're about being real. Here’s some questions to level up your game: Instead of asking “What do you do?” Try these: • “What got you to where you are today?” • “Why did you want to be a project lead/engineer/creative?” • “What are the most important elements of your role?” • “What do you think the traits of a great leader are?” What's the best question you’ve been asked at a networking event? Do you loathe networking or see if as a great way to meet interesting people?

I used to think I knew how to “work a room” like a pro. Everyone knew me. But when I left, no one remembered why I mattered. That’s because conventional wisdom says networking is about collecting contacts, but it’s not. I have boxes of business cards of people I met at some event and never talked to again.  What is the purpose of that?  I like to think about this entire topic differently.  To me, networking should be about building credibility in absentia: what people say about you when you’re not in the room. That’s the flaw of traditional networking. It’s transactional, not transformational. Research backs this up: the people who get the most career opportunities aren’t those with the most connections, they’re those with high “network activation”. https://lnkd.in/ecdtg3i5. In plain English: their reputations travel faster than they do. So instead of trying to know everyone, focus on: 1. Being referable. Do great work and communicate it clearly. Reputation compounds. 2. Being memorable. Share something that no one will ever forget about you.  For me, it’s my connection to FOMO, for you, it might be your ukulele skills. 3. Turning weak ties into strong signals. Sociologist Mark Granovetter’s classic study found that 84% of jobs came through weak ties. https://lnkd.in/eUutyG3d Casual acquaintances who vouched for credibility, not closeness. In the end, networking isn’t about who you know; it’s about who knows you, and what they’d say if someone asked. What’s one thing you’ve done that made people remember your work long after you left the room?

"I'm networking but nothing ever comes of it." Harsh truth: You're asking the wrong questions. "Pick your brain" questions just don't cut it. (You can get my full networking guide here: https://lnkd.in/eTaNznW5) Claire told me she'd had 30+ coffee chats and Zoom meetings. They went "nowhere." So I asked her, "What questions did you ask?" "You know, the general stuff like:" ❌ "Do you know about any openings?" ❌ "Would you take a look at my resume?" ❌ "What advice do you have for me..." Generic and unfocused, she set herself up for failure. It wasn't her fault. We're not taught how to network properly, and it's not intuitive. The secret? Treat networking like research:  ↳ Go in knowing what you want learn from each person  ↳ Tailor your questions to the individual This shows people you take their time seriously. I put networking questions into 4 categories: ✅ Questions about the role ✅ Questions about the employer ✅ Questions about the industry ✅ Questions to wrap strong Here are some good ones to get you started: Questions About the Role 1. What do you like best about your job? 2. What personal traits are needed in this role? 3. What top 3 skills are needed for this job? 4. What are the biggest challenges you're facing? 5. What are the biggest opportunities for growth? 6. How is your performance measured? 7. What is the next role you could be promoted to? 8. What background/training is needed for this job? 9. What is the interview process for this role? 10. What is the salary range for this job? Questions About the Employer 11. What do you like best about working here? 12. How would you describe the culture and leadership? 13. What would you change if you could? 14. How are decisions made in the organization? 15. What's the training and professional development like? 16. How much room for growth do you see here? 17. How does the salary/benefits compare to competitors? Questions About the Industry 18. Who are your biggest competitors? 19. What are the biggest challenges in the industry? 20. Would you say the industry is growing? Or not? 21. What opportunities do you see in the next 3 years? 22. Where are they doing exciting work? 23. Are there professional associations I should join? Questions to Wrap Strong 24. Who else do you suggest I speak to? 25. Can I be in touch if I see an opening here? 26. Is there anything else you want to share or think I should know? Notice what is not said: ❌ Keep your eyes open for me... ❌Let me know if you hear about anything... That's asking them to do work for you. The outcomes will happen, naturally, if you make a good impression and STAY IN TOUCH. My full networking guide with sample subject lines and email text for various situations is available here: https://lnkd.in/e6Q_JQu6 ♻️ Share to help job hunters make meaningful connections 🔔 Follow Sarah Baker Andrus for career strategies

"I'm an introvert." A client said this after six months of job searching. "Dima, I know networking matters. But I'm an introvert. I just can't do it." I've heard it from 40+ engineers this year. Every time I ask the same question: Who told you networking was only for extroverts? They'd watched extroverts dominate rooms and assumed the trait was the skill. It wasn't. → Introversion isn't what's holding them back. ↳ Their definition of networking is. Most engineers picture networking like this: → Walking into a room. → Making small talk over lukewarm coffee. → Collecting business cards you'll never look at again. That isn't networking. 𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝘀𝗼𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘇𝗶𝗻𝗴. Real networking is one quiet skill: ↳ Helping the right people remember you when opportunity appears. ↳ Introverts are built for it. One-on-one depth. Genuine curiosity. Careful listening. ↳ These aren't soft skills. They're networking superpowers most extroverts never develop. I teach my clients the CARE Framework. Not because networking has to be complicated. Because it should be intentional. 𝗖 → Choose intentionally → Identify 10 people who can influence your career. ↳ 10 is the number your brain can hold as real relationships. Start with: hiring managers, recruiters, engineers whose path you want to follow. 𝗔 → Add value first → Notice something specific in their post that others scrolled past. → Share a resource only someone in your role would know about. → Reference something they published three months ago. ↳ Memory is the rarest form of attention. 𝗥 → Reach out with curiosity → Ask about their career path, not just their current role. → Ask what they'd do differently if they started over. → Ask what they wish more engineers knew. ↳ Most people ask questions to fill silence. ↳ Introverts ask because they're genuinely curious. 𝗘 → Engage consistently → One meaningful conversation each day. ↳ Five each week. ↳ Twenty every month. Small actions become trusted relationships. Trusted relationships become referrals. Referrals become interviews. Interviews become job offers. ↳ Job offers become choices. ↳ Not desperation. One of my clients followed this framework for 30 days. ↳ The third message she sent became a referral interview. → Engineers who believe they're "bad at networking" keep applying to 50 job boards and refreshing their inbox at 11pm. ↳ Engineers who build genuine relationships rarely have to rely on hope. That's the real difference. Your personality isn't your biggest career obstacle. The story you've been telling yourself about it is. ❤️ Repost this if you believe great engineers deserve to be discovered, not overlooked. 🔔 Follow Dima Abu-Khaled for practical strategies to land better opportunities and stronger job offers. 📩 If you're a woman in engineering looking to land your next role, DM me. I'd love to help you build a job search strategy that actually works.

"You are so interesting to talk to!" My networking partner said this after our coffee chat last week. Plot twist: I barely talked about myself. For 45 minutes, I asked about her career transition. Her challenges with remote team management. What she was learning about AI implementation. I listened. Asked follow-up questions. Showed genuine curiosity about her experience. She did 80% of the talking. Yet somehow, I was the "interesting" one. This reminded me of something negotiation expert Chris Voss teaches: interested people are interesting!!! It sounds backwards, but it works. The best networking conversations I have had? I spent most of them learning about the other person's journey, not pitching my own. The strongest professional relationships I have built? They started with me asking "What's the most challenging part of your role right now?" instead of leading with my resume. Here's what I have learned about building real connections: Stop trying to be impressive. Start being impressed by others. Ask questions that matter to them. Listen like their answer will teach you something new. Because it probably will. The fastest way to become memorable is to make others feel heard. What's the best question you have been asked in a networking conversation? What made it so good?

⁉️ Why most high performers struggle with networking (and how to fix it) Recently, I coached a young, highly driven leader with us at Siemens. Top performer. Critical project. Full ownership of his “baby.” And yet — when we spoke about his next career step, he hit a wall. Not because of skills. Not because of performance. But because of one thing: 👉 His network was too narrow. This is something I see often in IT, leadership, and project environments: When you're deeply committed to delivery, networking feels like a nice-to-have. Until it suddenly becomes a must-have. 💡 So we turned insight into action. Here’s what we agreed on: 1. Block time — or it won’t happen → 2 hours per week, dedicated only to networking → Focus deliberately outside his immediate project bubble 2. Start with “low-hanging fruit” → Reconnect with former colleagues and contacts → Relationships don’t need to start from zero 3. Use the “+2 rule” At the end of every conversation: 👉 “Who are 2 people you think I should connect with?” This single question compounds your network faster than anything else. 4. Build a feedback loop Every Friday, 10 minutes of reflection: → “How did I invest in my network this week — and what did I learn?” 5. Add accountability We set a simple goal: → 3 meaningful conversations in 3 weeks → Follow-up session to review outcomes 🚀 My observation after years in leadership & IT: Careers rarely stall because of lack of competence. They stall because of lack of visibility, perspective, and connections. Your network is not a side activity. It is your long-term career infrastructure. ❓ Now I’m curious: What’s one networking habit or hack that has actually worked for you? Drop it in the comments — let’s learn from each other 👇 #Leadership #Networking #CareerGrowth #ITLeadership #Coaching #ProfessionalDevelopment #PersonalGrowth #Management #TechLeadership

Most leaders are networking wrong and don't know it. Most are networking hard. Few are getting opportunities. Here's what I keep seeing: They show up to every event. They send connection requests. They have coffee chats. But when a role opens up, someone else gets the call. The problem isn't effort. It's psychology. Networking isn't a social activity. It's behavioral science. Most people network for visibility. Top performers network for positioning. The difference: → Visibility = "I'm here" → Positioning = "I solve this specific problem" One gets polite conversations. The other gets opportunities. I just built a carousel breaking down the 10 psychology principles that actually work: • Familiarity Bias (why repetition beats brilliance) • Reciprocity (the right order of giving and asking) • Cognitive Ease (your 10-second clarity test) • Specificity Bias (how vague requests kill referrals) • Social Proof (why others' validation matters more than yours) • Authority (positioning yourself as the expert without saying it) • Identity Alignment (making them see you as "one of us") • Timing Psychology (when to ask matters as much as what you ask) • Loss Aversion (framing what they'll miss, not just what they'll gain) • The Helper's High (why making them feel good creates loyalty) It includes the networking formula and a printable checklist you can use before every conversation. If you're networking but not seeing results, this will show you exactly what to change. Have you noticed this gap between networking activity and actual opportunities?

Networking is a career-changing skill…But how exactly do you do that effectively❓Here’s a clear, step-by-step guide to mastering professional networking etiquette: ① 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗖𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 ↳ Know exactly what insights you’re seeking to make it easy for others to help. ➤ Clear goals lead to clear answers! ② 𝗖𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗔𝘂𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 ↳ Leverage common interests or shared affiliations to make introductions smoother. ➤ A genuine connection turns a stranger into an ally. ③ 𝗦𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗚𝗲𝗻𝘂𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁 ↳ Approach each conversation eager to learn and understand others. ➤ People notice authenticity and remember how you make them feel. ④ 𝗦𝗲𝗲𝗸 𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗶𝗰𝗲, 𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗝𝗼𝗯𝘀 ↳ Ask for guidance, and let job opportunities arise naturally. ➤ When you ask for advice, opportunities follow. ⑤ 𝗢𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝗩𝗮𝗹𝘂𝗲 𝗕𝗮𝗰𝗸 ↳ Share resources or connections that genuinely benefit your network. ➤ Generosity builds stronger connections than transactions ever will. ⑥ 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗧𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗸𝘀 𝗧𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹𝘆 ↳ Always acknowledge the time and effort people share with you. ➤ A simple thank-you note can deepen relationships dramatically. ⑦ 𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘀 𝗨𝗽𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗱 ↳ Stay in touch regularly; people value hearing about your progress. ➤ Regular check-ins keep relationships alive and thriving. ———————————— Your professional network grows strongest when you build authentic connections. Confidence and genuine curiosity always lead to opportunities. 💬 Which networking etiquette tip has helped you most in your career? Share below! ♻️ Repost and tag someone who needs to see this! #NetworkingTips #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalDevelopment

90% of people starting a Climate Career waste their networking calls 😭 Here’s how you turn networking into a goldmine 👇 For context: If you spend all this upfront energy on: → Finding the right people to network with. → Craft a good message. → Send it to people. → Schedule time. → Call prep. So you can talk to somebody for 20 minutes. You should maximize the networking game for results 💪. You do that by focusing on two things. (no. 2 is most important!) 👇 1️⃣ Understand WHAT and HOW → What is their job and How they do their job? Focus on the following: → The lingo they use to describe their job. → What makes them successful? → Which skills they use most? → What KPIs they track? → What they love? Have your questions ready. Steer the conversation to maximize your learning. Then use your new smarts to change how you talk about your transferable skills. FYI: This works best if you talk with somebody who has the job you want. 2️⃣ Deliver Value (Most Important!) Here’s the simple question you ask to transform every networking call: ❓“Which company challenge in [enter your primary skill] keeps not getting solved because of limited bandwidth?”❓ Pay very close attention to how they answer this. Ask clarifying questions along the way. Listen carefully and take notes. Don’t solve the problem on the spot. Write the problem down. After the call, take a moment to articulate your solution to it. Tell a story of “how you solved this exact issue at your last company”. Send it as part of your “thank you for your time” email. 👉 You will be amazed by how easily people will see the value you can bring to their team. And the moment you deliver value, all kinds of doors open for you. Use this strategy to make yourself successful 🙌 —— PS. Want to transition into a Climate Career? 👉 Consider applying to the Climate Drift Career Accelerator for mid-career professionals. Our last cohort had an NPS of 64 (above Apple) and a 4.6/5 stars satisfaction rate. Plus we’re getting reviews like: 😍 1️⃣ “This is truly like no cohort out there! (I've done a few). The intimate community setting and amazing, intelligent speakers are unmatched.” 2️⃣ ”I learned SO MUCH and feel 10x more equipped for my climate career goals than before.” 3️⃣ “10 out of 10: The content is in-depth and interesting, and gives the cohort opportunities to get involved by tackling challenges hands on (which in my opinion, is the best way to learn!)”