Building Professional Relationships

Poverty is not a tourist attraction. 😭🥵What even breaks my heart more is that the little boy had to wash his hands. As storytellers, travelers, and global citizens, we must recognize the fine line between raising awareness and exploiting dignity. Communities facing hardship are not spectacles for consumption. They are human beings with dreams, resilience, and a right to tell their own stories on their own terms. True impact comes when we shift from poverty tourism to partnership. Instead of taking pictures of suffering, let’s invest in local businesses, support grassroots initiatives, and amplify voices from within communities. Instead of dropping in for an experience, let’s build long-term relationships that lead to empowerment and transformation. Storytelling should never strip away dignity. Tourism should never commodify struggle. Development should never be about “saving” but about standing alongside. It’s time we replace curiosity with compassion, and pity with purpose. #DignityInStorytelling #EthicalTourism #SocialImpact #GlobalResponsibility

🤦🏼♀️You don’t know what networking is. Sending a cold dm to a stranger on LinkedIn isn’t networking, it’s asking a stranger for help. It’s telling someone you need a job. And that’s fine and you need to do that but don’t get it twisted that is NOT networking. 🟢Networking is building relationships. 🟢Networking is getting to know other people. 🟢Networking is not about YOU. Here are some tips on how to network 1. Shift Your Mindset 🧠 Give first: Don’t just ask for favors; ask, "How can I support you?" or share helpful resources.   2. Be Selective 📈 Quality over quantity: One meaningful conversation is better than cold emailing 50 cards strangers. Personalized outreach: Never send a generic connection request. Add a note mentioning a shared interest, a recent article they wrote, or a mutual connection.   3.Long-term focus 📆 Networking is a marathon. Cultivate relationships before you actually need a job or a favor.     4. Be Ready 💃 Have your pitch down. Know your unique value proposition. Be memorable. 5. Leave the house 🚗💨 Go to in person industry events, conferences and happy hours. Play pickle ball. Go with your friend to their work event. Join a chamber of commerce. Make friends at a café. 6. Don’t be shy 🤝 How to break the ice: Approach people standing alone or in groups of three (they are easier to enter than pairs). Introduce yourself simply and ask open-ended questions like, "What brought you out here tonight?" or "What exciting projects are you working on?" 7 Follow Up 📱 The 48-hour rule: Always follow up within 48 hours of meeting, send a thank you note or a thank you. Better yet send an article or resource that connects back to the conversation you had. (Go back to step 1 be a resource) Mention something specific you discussed (e.g., "I loved hearing about your experience transitioning into tech") to jog their memory   8. Be active on social 👩🏼💻media: Share industry insights, comment on others' posts, and reach out to professionals for 15-minute informational interviews.   9- Nurture consistently 🎯 Check in occasionally with a quick text or email just to share a relevant article, say congratulations on a milestone, or see how they are doing   10- It’s not about YOU🤗Networking is about building a relationship that is mutually beneficial. GIVE VALUE. #howtonetwork #careeradvice #jobsearchtips #linkedin

#Networking is underrated but it single handedly helped me get my a) My First job, 2) My first client (and many more clients) and also our 3) Mentor, Ravi - amongst many other aspects of my personal and professional life #PowerOfNetworking cannot be underestimated. And its never about exchange business cards or linkedin handles - it's about building relationships, about learning and having a meaningful conversation in the few minutes that you get. First, select the right kind of #events to network a) Start with smaller #LocalMeetups and events b) Then select #IndustryConferences relevant to you. For eg, in Marketing there is Internet and Mobile Association of India (IAMAI), exchange4media, Social Samosa, Ad Clubs c) #ManagementAssociations have a mixed crowd but one can meet like-minded individuals there. Eg. Bombay Management Association, Confederation of Indian Industry (CII), Young Indians, The Indus Entrepreneurs (TiE) So how do you start the first conversation 1. #Reading - This may seem like it has nothing to do with Networking but it has everything to do with it. Often, being well read is a good segway to an opening conversation. Be it business news, industry trends or even reading non fiction books. I regularly read The Ken in combination with select publications that I track via Google Alerts 2. Craft a #PersonalIntroduction - First impressions matter. Having a concise, interesting, and relevant introduction can help others remember you. It should encapsulate who you are, what you do, and what value you bring 3. #JustDoIt - Quoting Nike's slogan here. Don't think about what will the other person think if you start talking to them. The worst that can happen is that they will keep the conversation short. So if you seen an opening where someone is alone, just say hello and introduce yourself. That's all it takes 4. Researching the #Speakers is another easy win. It allows you to have specific questions and conversations that you may want to have with them. Ofcourse, most attendees want to meet the speakers, so be patient 5. #Quality Over Quantity - While it's tempting to meet as many people as possible, quality always trumps quantity. I focus on having fewer, more meaningful conversations rather than trying to meet everyone in the room. That's how I met the Head of HR at Taj Hotels & eventually landed my first job 6. #OfferValue Before Expecting It - This could be in the form of an introduction, or sharing a relevant piece of content. When you help others, you build trust and goodwill, which often comes back in many forms. And this can happen over the years. 7. #FollowUp is equally important - The real magic of networking often happens after the event. Sending them a Linkedin connection request or an email or Whatsapp just helps keeps the conversation going. Commenting on their Linkedin posts can keep you on their radar too Over the years, I've had met some amazing individuals through networking. Wishing you the best with it!

I used to say the right recommendation in meetings and watch it get ignored until someone else repeated it, and suddenly it moved forward. I thought they missed it, but they heard me clearly the first time. I had no power in that room, and my framing made it easy to dismiss. This is what changes as you move closer to executive roles. You will sit in rooms where your title does not carry weight yet. You will still be expected to influence decisions that impact revenue, risk, and direction. Influence is not reserved for people with authority, it is built through how you position ideas. I learned that influence is a system you can apply even with low formal power. Here are 12 ways to do it in practice. Make them think it was their idea by planting logic early and letting them carry it forward. Start with the business problem so leaders engage before forming resistance to your recommendation. Tie your recommendation to revenue, risk, retention, or customer impact so it feels relevant. Bring proof before you speak so your point lands with credibility and not opinion. Present a clear decision with tradeoffs so the room moves toward action faster. Align privately before meetings so public conversations feel like confirmation, not persuasion. Mirror the language leaders already use so your idea feels familiar and easier to accept. Show the cost of inaction so staying the same feels like a risk. Make the first step easy so momentum builds without resistance from the group. Identify who actually influences decisions and build alignment with them early. Ask better questions to surface pressure points leaders are already trying to solve. Close by connecting your idea directly to what leadership already said matters most. This is the work most people miss when they say they are ready for executive roles. Execution gets you in the room, but influence decides if you stay there.

I was Wrong about Influence. Early in my career, I believed influence in a decision-making meeting was the direct outcome of a strong artifact presented and the ensuing discussion. However, with more leadership experience, I have come to realize that while these are important, there is something far more important at play. Influence, for a given decision, largely happens outside of and before decision-making meetings. Here's my 3 step approach you can follow to maximize your influence: (#3 is often missed yet most important) 1. Obsess over Knowing your Audience Why: Understanding your audience in-depth allows you to tailor your communication, approach and positioning. How: ↳ Research their backgrounds, how they think, what their goals are etc. ↳ Attend other meetings where they are present to learn about their priorities, how they think and what questions they ask. Take note of the topics that energize them or cause concern. ↳ Engage with others who frequently interact with them to gain additional insights. Ask about their preferences, hot buttons, and any subtle cues that could be useful in understanding their perspective. 2. Tailor your Communication Why: This ensures that your message is not just heard but also understood and valued. How: ↳ Seek inspiration from existing artifacts and pickup queues on terminologies, context and background on the give topic. ↳ Reflect on their goals and priorities, and integrate these elements into your communication. For instance, if they prioritize efficiency, highlight how your proposal enhances productivity. ↳Ask yourself "So what?" or "Why should they care" as a litmus test for relatability of your proposal. 3. Pre-socialize for support Why: It allows you to refine your approach, address potential objections, and build a coalition of support (ahead of and during the meeting). How: ↳ Schedule informal discussions or small group meetings with key stakeholders or their team members to discuss your idea(s). A casual coffee or a brief virtual call can be effective. Lead with curiosity vs. an intent to respond. ↳ Ask targeted questions to gather feedback and gauge reactions to your ideas. Examples: What are your initial thoughts on this draft proposal? What challenges do you foresee with this approach? How does this align with our current priorities? ↳ Acknowledge, incorporate and highlight the insights from these pre-meetings into the main meeting, treating them as an integral part of the decision-making process. What would you add? PS: BONUS - Following these steps also expands your understanding of the business and your internal network - both of which make you more effective. --- Follow me, tap the (🔔) Omar Halabieh for daily Leadership and Career posts.

Working with people you find difficult is no joke. It can impact your well-being, your performance, and definitely your ability to enjoy your job. For Harvard Business Review, I shared 7 strategies to help you work more effectively with challenging coworkers, whether you're dealing with an insecure boss, a passive-aggressive peer, or someone whose behavior simply gets under your skin (we all know people like that!). Here’s a quick overview: 1️⃣ Remember your perspective is just one of many. We all see situations through our own lens. Try asking yourself: Could I be wrong? 2️⃣ Be aware of your biases. From confirmation bias to affinity bias, our brains take shortcuts that often distort how we perceive others, especially those who are different from us. 3️⃣ Don’t make it “me against them.” Reframe the conflict as a shared problem to solve, not a personal battle to win. 4️⃣ Know your goal. What are you actually trying to achieve - peace, productivity, recognition? Let that intention guide how you show up. 5️⃣ Be careful with venting and gossip. Some venting can be helpful, if done the right way. But negatively intended gossip can harden your view, damage your credibility, and reinforce negativity. 6️⃣ Experiment to find what works. Try small behavior shifts and observe the impact. If one approach doesn’t work, try another. Think of it as an experiment, not a fix. 7️⃣ Stay curious. Certainty keeps us stuck. Curiosity opens the door to empathy, creativity, and sometimes even resolution. These aren’t quick fixes - nothing worthwhile is - but they can help you feel more grounded and less reactive, even when someone else’s behavior doesn’t change. Link to the full article is in the comments 👇 Image alt text: How to Navigate Conflict with a Coworker

𝗜𝘀 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗝𝗼𝗯 𝗦𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗰𝗵 𝗗𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗧𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗘𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗴𝘆 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗟𝗶𝘁𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗦𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗜𝘁? The hidden cost of relying on traditional job applications is more significant than you might think. You're investing precious time and energy only to face: • Endless rejections from automated systems filtering out your resume. • Getting lost in a sea of applicants without ever hearing back. • Missing out on job opportunities that never even make it to job boards. 𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁: You're wasting valuable resources by putting all your hope in a broken process that isn't designed to work in your favor. There's a different way. It's not easy, but it's doable. Consider this: • 𝗕𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽𝘀 with people in your target industry gets you closer to real opportunities. • 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗰 𝗻𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 bypasses the resume pile. • Personal referrals dramatically increase your chances of landing interviews. It's not about perfecting your resume for ATS systems. It's about creating direct connections with decision-makers. A successful job search is built through consistent networking and personalized outreach. I've taught 100+ job seekers how to skip the application pile and get interviews through referrals. 𝗙𝗼𝗿 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲, 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗺𝘆 𝗰𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝘂𝗰𝗸 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗹𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗽 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝟴+ 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀. 𝗔𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗼𝗰𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗻 𝗻𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗴𝗲𝗻𝘂𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗶𝗲𝘄—𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝗮 𝗷𝗼𝗯 𝗼𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿—𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻 𝟱 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸𝘀 𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝗻 𝟮𝟬𝟮𝟰. So, what's one step you're taking today to build your network instead of applying aimlessly? Share your strategies in the comments below!

Meaningful relationships and a good reputation don’t come via shortcuts. It takes a steady, long path in the same direction over many years. You won’t earn it in one coffee or one email. You earn it through consistent work, doing what you say you’re going to do, honesty and kindness. Be wary of “partnerships” that are just transactions in a nicer outfit. If nobody’s asking what the talent actually wants, or what success looks like for them three years out, that’s the tell. It’s all deliverables and deck pages and a tight little bow on top. The deals that have actually mattered in my career didn’t start with a deck. They started with a real conversation. Sometimes about the work, sometimes about kids, sometimes about an idea or creative someone was obsessed with that week. It’s why I’ve loved working with athletes across the NBA, WNBA, NFL, MLB, soccer stars, Olympians and beyond. You get to hear their dreams as creative expression. Thats the real stuff!! The trust you build in those moments is what makes the hard moments survivable later. When something goes sideways, and it always does, people stick around for the relationship more than the contract. Real relationships get built when you lose a deal because you told someone the truth instead of selling them what they wanted to hear.

🤝 Networking in Germany: It’s More Than Just Job Hunting! In a recent poll, you voted that, besides finding the right companies, your biggest challenge is networking. Here’s how you can expand your network and find hidden job opportunities: 🔹 1. Join Industry Events & Meetups ✅ Tech conferences (e.g., Bits & Pretzels, OMR, Web Summit) ✅ Startup events (e.g., Berlin Startup Night, Hamburg Startups) ✅ Meetup.com events in your industry (IT, finance, marketing, consulting) ✅ Local Chamber of Commerce or professional networking events 💡 Tip: Many companies hire through referrals, so even a casual conversation at an event could lead to an opportunity! 🔹 2. Use LinkedIn the Right Way LinkedIn is a place to build relationships. ✅ Follow professionals in your field and comment on their posts ✅ Send personalized connection requests ✅ Join LinkedIn groups relevant to your expertise ✅ Share your own knowledge (projects, industry insights, trends) 💡 Tip: Instead of writing, "Hi, can you help me find a job?", try: "Hi [Name], I see you're in [industry]. I’m new to Germany and would love to exchange insights. Let’s connect!" 🔹 3. Get Involved in Sports & Hobby Circles 🏀🎨🎸 Networking isn’t just professional—it’s also social! Some of the best connections happen in hobby groups and sports clubs. ✅ Join a local gym, running club, football team, yoga group ✅ Sign up for art classes, book clubs, language meetups ✅ Play in a band or music group ✅ Volunteer for local events & organizations 💡 Why? Germans value trust and long-term relationships. If people know you personally, they’re more likely to help you professionally. 🇩🇪 Bonus: You can also practice your German while meeting people. Even basic German can help you integrate, build trust, and access more job opportunities. 🔹 4. Use the “Coffee Chat” Strategy ☕ Many people land jobs through casual conversations. ✅ Reach out to professionals in your industry ✅ Invite them for a 15-20 minute virtual coffee chat ✅ Ask about their career path, industry trends, and advice ✅ Focus on learning & relationship-building, not just job searching 💡 Tip: People remember genuine conversations. If they hear of a job opening, they might think of you first! 🔹 5. Explore Online Communities & Hidden Job Markets Many job leads come from WhatsApp, Slack, or Facebook groups. 🔹 Slack communities: Berlin Tech Workers, Startup Jobs Germany 🔹 Facebook groups: “English Jobs in Germany” / “Expats in [city]” 🔹 Internations.org: Great for meeting professionals in Germany 💡 Tip: Actively engage in discussions. The more visible you are, the more opportunities will come your way! 🌍 Final Thought: Networking is not just about job hunting—it’s about integrating, building trust, and forming connections. When you participate in events, hobbies, and professional communities, you naturally expand your opportunities. #Networking #JobSearch #Germany #CareerTips #ExpatLife #LinkedInNetworking #Integration

If you want to build a network in 30 days, read this: Goal: Build a foundation for your professional network by forming genuine connections with 10 individuals relevant to your career goals. Before you start: Define your goals: What do you hope to achieve by building your network? (e.g., career advice, industry knowledge, potential job opportunities) Identify target individuals: Who are the people you want to connect with? Consider their expertise, experience, and potential value in achieving your goals. Days 1-10: Laying the groundwork Utilize social media: Update your LinkedIn profile to showcase your skills and experience. Join relevant groups and follow industry leaders. Start small: Reach out to 2-3 people you haven't spoken to recently or connect with 1-2 new contacts. Personalize your message and focus on value. Attend online events: Look for webinars, online conferences, or workshops related to your field. Participate actively and introduce yourself to others virtually. Identify industry influencers: Research thought leaders and key players in your field. Follow their work and engage with their content online. Volunteer your expertise: Research volunteer opportunities related to your industry. This allows you to give back, network, and build your reputation. Days 11-20: Building connections Follow-up with initial contacts: Send a follow-up email or message expressing your appreciation for their time and reiterating your interest in staying connected. Engage in online communities: Participate in relevant online discussions. Offer your insights, answer questions, and build your online presence. Connect through mutual connections: Research your existing network for potential connections who know people you'd like to meet. Seek introductions and personalize your outreach. Attend local events: Look for industry meetups, networking events, or conferences in your area. Prepare conversation starters and actively connect with new people. Leverage alumni networks: If you're a college graduate, reconnect with alumni in your field through professional groups or university resources. Days 21-30: Nurturing relationships Share valuable content: Share relevant articles, industry news, or resources with your connections through emails or social media. Offer congratulations and support: Celebrate your network's achievements and offer support during challenges. Show genuine interest in their lives and careers. Schedule informational interviews: Reach out to individuals you admire and request informational interviews. Use this opportunity to learn more about their career path and gain insights. Be a resource: Look for ways to help others in your network by offering introductions, sharing opportunities, or providing relevant information. Schedule coffee chats: Invite 1-2 people you've connected with for virtual or in-person coffee chats to deepen your relationships and explore potential collaborations. Source: "Reach Out" by Molly Beck